"The overly traditional gown from the late 1800's and the 20th century has run its course" says Bullock. Anyone who is chosing their gown based on what other people may or may not think is not chosing the perfect gown for themselves. This is the one day in your life to have it your way, so don't pass it up!

Steven Birnbaum conveys the message that today's woman is no longer being dictated to. She's full of self-confidence and with the explosion of the media's coverage of fashion she is much more knowledgable in her choices. "It does not matter if it is your first, second or third wedding" says Birnbaum, "its still your special day and should be celebrated with the same exuberance."

With all this in mind, Birnbaum & Bullock believe the new century's weddings should reflect the bride's life long successes instead of her childhood fairytales.